You're doing awesome as a parent! Keep it up and don't be so hard on yourself. This is a great friend or family gift to a loved one that's kicking ass being a parent! Scent:apricot grove Scent notes: pear, jasmine, nectarine, apricot, vanilla. Size: 9oz glass jar with lid Wax: coconut apricot wax blend candle Dimensions: 2.9 x 3.5 Up to 80+ hr burn time Made and shipped from california usa Our candles are made simple: they're all made with a beautiful blend of renewable, vegan, orderless coconut and apricot wax, high quality fragrance oils, and organic cotton wicks. The fragrances we use are paraben-free, phthalate-free, and not tested on animals!